OK, i think the problem has been identified, insufficient brine draw, the cause is still yet unknown.
I disconnected the line at the valve that goes to the brine tank, i blew through it and it produced bubbles with issue, i sucked on it and pulled brine( nasty )
I marked the waterline inside the brine tank with a sharpie.
I put the unit into re-gen and watched it cycle.
During the brine rinse the water level (only) dropped just under and inch( i know this is not correct).
i have detached the line inside the brine tank during brine rinse and was getting good suction from the line and from the elbow when attached, no blockage that i could tell. I checked at the valve and it also had good suction.
during the brine fill cycle the water level increased to fill the tank 4 inches above the original mark i had made.
this is the valve from in the tank: is this this prone to fail?

so, i have determined that for some reason, not nearly enough brine is being draw into the tank, yet it is refilling without issue, BUT i am confused with the fact that i was able to suck brine through the line myself.
the only other things i can add are:
When in brine draw, the sound that is being made reminds me of suction with as light leak, kind of a "bubbly ppssspt" and when i adjust the nut where the line attaches inside the brine tank it sometimes goes away, yet more brine does not draw.
also the water level in the tank is not high enough to lift the float in the picture.
over the last couple days ive run it through numerous re-gens while testing, and right now the water is running very soft, but only because of the numerous re-gens i am sure, even at only an inch of brine, 4 or 5 re-gens will do something
any thoughts?